Choosing Bridal Shower Invitations
The bridal invitations are a very important, but often overlooked or underestimated, step in planning your bride’s shower. The invitation is the first thing your guests see, and it sets the tone for the event. Please, ladies: don’t buy the package from the store that has blanks for you to handwrite the when, where, who, etc. The fact of the matter is that we are living in the 21st century and there is no excuse for this. Almost everyone has access to a personal computer, which almost certainly has a word processing or even a basic graphics layout program, which is easily used to design a simple invitation. Now, put the hand-written invitation package down, and walk a few steps down the aisle, and you will see the blank invitation package. This product often has a cute and colorful border around it or some kind of design, and it is just too easy to lay out the wording on your computer and print them at home, or take them to a print center and get them printed while you wait. Usually, they can help you design the wording, too, if you are truly computer challenged. Printing your invitations this way is really very inexpensive about $20 for a pack of 50 invitations, 10 cents per copy at your local copy shop, or free if you print from home. Of course, you can also just go to an invitation specialty shop and buy the blank invites (they’re quite a bit more expensive here usually-$1-2 a piece) and even have them design and print them for you (another $1-2 a piece).
Another reason to choose the printed invitation is that this is your opportunity to let your guests know what your theme is. Open the invitation with some cute or funny verses about the shower. This is where they figure out what is expected of them. Check out some invitation design websites for ideas for the wording on your invitation. They should be mailed 3-4 weeks prior to the shower.
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My best friend is getting married and she made me the maid of honor. Her wedding is in March. So little time before the wedding! This site is GOLD, thank you!
My question is who do you invite and how do you get the address do you ask the mothers or do you ask the bride. I’d rather ask the mothers since the bride already has so much to do. What are your thoughts.
Also I agree with making the invitations I am a creative memories consultant and they have the best software called storybook creator! I plan on using that! Thanks!
Thats nothing. My friend just asked me today and she’s getting married in 8 weeks!